Thanksgiving is barely behind us and I don’t think I’m even fully digested yet but there is no time because now it is all about Christmas. The holiday for children in my mind. The holiday where adults eat, drink, sing, maybe dance and laugh. Where children sit around opening gifts and we put them together for them. That is my view of Christmas. My family and my husband’s family have a very different idea about this holiday they think buying for everyone with no limits, no picking names, no swapping just full out buy whatever you want for everyone. This year I at the Thanksgiving table I brought up no buying for adults only children. HA that went over about as well as the Titanic trying to avoid the iceberg. I negotiated and brought up budgets it was a long debate but in the end I did win kind of. We have a “budget” for those who want it and whoever doesn’t can just buy whatever they want for whoever.
Here is the problem, we make lists of things just to make lists and give our loved one ideas of what to buy us. If you are like me you don’t wait until holidays to buy things you buy them when you want them and more importantly when you need them. My husband met me like this so he never expects gifts on his birthday or Christmas but then again he never expects a gift on Tuesday evening when he arrives home for work and that is what makes it special.
Off track back to the list. Last year I was sure I would start juicing so of course I got a juicer and used it until I realized there is barely any juice in fruit or vegetables and cleaning the machine is no picnic. I realized at that moment I really enjoy fruit in their original state. I also got this fancy wine bottle opener that can open a bottle of wine in about 10 seconds and I don’t have to do anything. Great gift for someone but I have never used it. I would re-gift it except I’m not sure who gave it to me and I’m afraid of gifting it to the gifter. Now my family is asking for me list by Friday since they only have about 4 weeks to shop. What am I going to put on this list?
I started to think I am so involved in the breast cancer cause participating on Relay for life, Strides, and other breast cancer causes why not have them donate in my name. This disease has touched my family, my co-workers, and my friends and I want desperately for our younger girls and boys to not have to worry about this disease. Here is the ironic thing. I don’t live with breast cancer but I do live with MCTD and I have never looked into getting involved or donating for the cause.
I read an article recently where a private donation of 45 million dollars was made to the research for celiac. (you can read the article at celiac.com) This disease has come a long way and more and more people are aware of it and a monetary donation like this one really can push them into great depths of figuring this disease out. Why not the same for MCTD. It has taken me 7 years to really connect to my disease. It has always been something I had but never owned. As I’m reaching out to others and learning even more and as I blog about my experiences with this disease it makes realize I need to get involved with this cause. I have until Friday to find out the safest, best, most reliable place to donate and put it as #1 on my Christmas wish list. I will blog when I find out this information and if anyone has information already please feel free to share with me.